STAND DOWN, PLEASE IGNORE PRIOR CRY FOR HELP. Juno, I actually used and was successful with search and found this post which had diagram. For others learning search, enter "programming connector". Here's the post:
http://mustangforums.com/forum/5-0-m...ess-entry.html
Did the re-programming and my remote now works. Again, Juno, thanks for a great service to the Mustang community and helping me out!
For those looking at the picture, the connector is that wire with the connector lying on the floor in the middle of the picture.