Lowering springs will even it out, not to mention get rid of the 4x4 look.
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-Keep it simple IMO
The V6 is hard to get alot out of but there are options. Expensive but they are there
SC or Turbo
has alot of packages that will make alot of power out of a six
any little bolt on you can find
Redo the whole suspension. Maximum Motorsports grip in a box package is good for that.