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Say what you said to him. Talk about it with him, if he cares he will try. If he hasn't got you off by intercourse alone its his fault for not figuring you out, not making the effort. Its not that hard if you listen to the girl and what she wants.
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You know, you are one messed up chick. I thought I had dated all the crazy girls in tulsa/owasso but I guess I missed one. Lmao.
Anyways, there are ways and things to try to have an orgasm during sex. Ive helped more than one girl have their first.. sometimes it takes toys, lots of patients, and stuff. You have to find what really turns you on and feels good first then try it. Seriously, PM me if you want to ask.. I can give you some ideas to try. The ex wife had a lot of issues (We later found out it was her BC that was causing most of them) so we experimented like you wouldnt believe.
As far as that goes, if you are at the point where you are not having sex, the relationship is toast. Trust me on that. Sexual issues are a HUGE part of a relationship. Either work it out very quick and get back to a normal sex life or start looking elsewhere, as you will have no long term future together.
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Srsly? Here is my gay answer. This is vital to any strong relationship, you don't want him creeping. It isn't that he isn't interested in sex, he just isn't interested in sex with you mmkay. Guys do get tired of doing all the work all the time. What you need to do is have a serious sit down with him and talk about it. See what you can do to rekindle his fire, but also give him some pointers on what he needs to do to stoke your firebox mmkay. You have to know what feels good and what you like, if you don't then visit adamandeve and you guys play around on that site, hell that is a good idea regardless. It can add some spice in the bedroom which sounds like what he is looking for. To him, sex has become like taking out the trash, it needs to be done, but he could careless about it. Also, is he spending the right amount of time pre-gaming for the super bowl or does he just go for the gold? the whole uncomfortable/hurt thing needs to be addressed. Several things can cause this, some may even need to be addressed with your doctor. Hopefully, you have one... Ask him/her about it and they can give the skinny for sure. Sometimes sex is uncomfortable for her when the slip and slide isn't so slippery and I don't want to pry as to why it is uncomfortable, but you guys need some serious couch/pillow time to talk this over and see what you need to do. Hell, you aren't even married and he is already complaining about sex, it isn't good for a relationship.
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Does he eat you out/finger you/rub you before he ****s you? If not...that's probably your biggest problem with not orgasming. I've found that my girlfriend orgasms much easier if I go down on her and get things going.
yeah he does, and it feels good, but once he "sticks it in" it just goes away and i dont feel that pleasure i get with foreplay.
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wow... damn banana's bigger than me....
Originally Posted by SkillzDatKillz im not nearly as large as that fruit
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I hate my penis so much. I wish it would turn inside out.
My ex would NEVER initiate sex. Ever. Like your BF I got tired of always trying to initiate it, working for it, yadda yadda yadda.
So I understand his view.
HOWEVER:
If you don't know exactly what gets you going, then odds are neither does he. (It is frustrating to see your partner not enjoying themselves) You have to learn what YOU like, before you can expect someone to deliver.
Basically, it is gonna take a lot of talking with between you to, figuring out what works and what does not.
I have always found it funny that people are willing to stick someone else's genitals in their mouth (or lick them) but cannot discuss it with your partner.
Say what you said to him. Talk about it with him, if he cares he will try. If he hasn't got you off by intercourse alone its his fault for not figuring you out, not making the effort. Its not that hard if you listen to the girl and what she wants.
we did talk,
and i've been like this with the last 3 guys i had a relationship with.
wtf is wrong with me.
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Quote:
Originally Posted by ShinobiOfLegends
wow... damn banana's bigger than me....
Originally Posted by SkillzDatKillz im not nearly as large as that fruit
Quote:
Originally Posted by Real Sniper
I hate my penis so much. I wish it would turn inside out.
You know, you are one messed up chick. I thought I had dated all the crazy girls in tulsa/owasso but I guess I missed one. Lmao.
Anyways, there are ways and things to try to have an orgasm during sex. Ive helped more than one girl have their first.. sometimes it takes toys, lots of patients, and stuff. You have to find what really turns you on and feels good first then try it. Seriously, PM me if you want to ask.. I can give you some ideas to try. The ex wife had a lot of issues (We later found out it was her BC that was causing most of them) so we experimented like you wouldnt believe.
As far as that goes, if you are at the point where you are not having sex, the relationship is toast. Trust me on that. Sexual issues are a HUGE part of a relationship. Either work it out very quick and get back to a normal sex life or start looking elsewhere, as you will have no long term future together.
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