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basically my boyfriend of over 2 years doesnt care about sex anymore. he doesnt think its important to him, and also he said he's tired of chasing, doing the work, initiating sex all the time to the point where he doesnt care about it anymore and that i basically act like i dont really want it. He's basically used to doing all the work which makes him not in the mood very much.
I totally understand his side.
My side
In the beginning sex was great, felt good, yada yada. than there were times i didnt want sex and he whined and i gave in when i didnt really want it. i did that so much to where i resented sex and i just didnt want it, i would rather give him a blow job just to get it over with and make him happy. Sex for me was uncomfortable and sometimes didnt feel like anything good, and sometimes hurt.
Fact is ive not ever had an actual orgasm from just intercourse alone. I seriously dont know how to have one like that and its been really bothering me and affecting mine and his relationship.
What i need to do is be the one to initiate sex and learn how to have an orgasm through intercourse
easier said than done.
seriouisly though how can i get him to care about sex and work on what each of us like so i can have an actual orgasm.
This has been bugging the crap out of me, and it really hurt to hear him say that he doesnt care about sex
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Originally Posted by ShinobiOfLegends
wow... damn banana's bigger than me....
Originally Posted by SkillzDatKillz im not nearly as large as that fruit
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Originally Posted by Real Sniper
I hate my penis so much. I wish it would turn inside out.
can we seriously cut the bull crap posts, im not in the mood for that right now.
and im so sick to death of toys, there freakin pathetic if thats what i have to resort to.
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Originally Posted by ShinobiOfLegends
wow... damn banana's bigger than me....
Originally Posted by SkillzDatKillz im not nearly as large as that fruit
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Originally Posted by Real Sniper
I hate my penis so much. I wish it would turn inside out.
Does he eat you out/finger you/rub you before he ****s you? If not...that's probably your biggest problem with not orgasming. I've found that my girlfriend orgasms much easier if I go down on her and get things going.
basically my boyfriend of over 2 years doesnt care about sex anymore. he doesnt think its important to him, and also he said he's tired of chasing, doing the work, initiating sex all the time to the point where he doesnt care about it anymore and that i basically act like i dont really want it. He's basically used to doing all the work which makes him not in the mood very much.
I totally understand his side.
My side
In the beginning sex was great, felt good, yada yada. than there were times i didnt want sex and he whined and i gave in when i didnt really want it. i did that so much to where i resented sex and i just didnt want it, i would rather give him a blow job just to get it over with and make him happy. Sex for me was uncomfortable and sometimes didnt feel like anything good, and sometimes hurt.
Fact is ive not ever had an actual orgasm from just intercourse alone. I seriously dont know how to have one like that and its been really bothering me and affecting mine and his relationship.
What i need to do is be the one to initiate sex and learn how to have an orgasm through intercourse
easier said than done.
seriouisly though how can i get him to care about sex and work on what each of us like so i can have an actual orgasm.
This has been bugging the crap out of me, and it really hurt to hear him say that he doesnt care about sex
can we seriously cut the bull crap posts, im not in the mood for that right now.
and im so sick to death of toys, there freakin pathetic if thats what i have to resort to.
not 1/10th as pathetic as coming to MFOT for sex advice.
quit bein a stingy bitch.
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I know all about sticking your fingers in bad places
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