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i give props for trying, but no on the first paragraph. men never say please. and actually evenasking her to get the beer for you is needy and prob wont work unless you're as charming as charlie sheen or she is really low self esteem. you don't ask questions, you present commands or opportunities.
You obviously dont hang out with the same type of people i do, ill just stop with that.
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i'd shoot more along the lines of, "i'm gonna head in and get another beer, join me if you want". you never say you're coming back, so if she's truly interested, she will follow. after she agrees, then you can take her hand or lead her with your hand on the small of her back, but don't just take her assuming it's game on. if she doesn't come with and would so easily be taken by another guy, she's not worth it anyway.
This works great also, a lot of it really kinda depends on where you are/the amount of people/type of atmosphere youre in. To grab her and take her with you is a type of assertion of your manliness on the 'hey, youre coming with me' level. It works, trust me, ive seen it on more than one occassion.. and after a few more of those it was a grab hand take to car n **** on a few of those occassions. Plus, all girls are different, hes got to be intelligent enough to guage what type of girl she may be before he starts ANY of this ****. But, regardless of if they admit it, most girls like the guy to lead the way on things, the guy that doesnt is just a 'friendly nice guy at the party'.
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if she waits for you exactly where you left her, then she probably is interested.
Or is a loser with low self esteem
Or still interested in playing her game
Or going to feel like she has his balls in her hand when he returns
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that brings me to another point...NEVER wait around on a girl where she left you. this goes along the same lines as you getting blue balled after the makeout. she left you in a state of arousal and she moved on. she knew she had the upper hand.
More than true.. that goes back to what i said about acting like you could give two ****s she just left you.. get up, shrug it off and move on
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MC: don't take girl advice from girls. they will sabotage you, even if their intent is good.
See, im trying to keep in mind the age group hes hanging out with, the play my game bull**** would never work on me at this point.. actually idk that it ever did bec i didnt go to parties.. my advice comes from sitting at several parties and watching this stuff take place and thinking 'seriously? She really fell for that?' But its all about attitude.. chicks are gonna go for the ' i dont care, whatever' kind of attitude like morbid was referring to, and putting some of your manly 'this is going MY way' attitude will get you laid more often than not.
Also.. being 18.. my friends and i used to see just how many guys we could leave rubbing their crotches by the end of lunch sometimes.. and there was absolutely nothing they could have said or done to rope us in.. you never know with some people.. esp if shes a repeat offender
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