problems (off topic )
11-10-2006, 03:02 PM
#21
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RE: problems (off topic )
ORIGINAL: 7upedition
Listen, I know the feeling, all you can do is wait, sometimes they are late sometimes early, its not an exact science, relax and take it as it comes. +1 on being a man, if she is, theres nothing you can do now, just be a man, be upfront and honest with her parents and yours, and in a few years you will look back and be thankful for the blessing that kids are. Don't do anything until it is confirmed! Best of luck to you!
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ORIGINAL: Kadence
if she is then be a man and take care of her
if she is then be a man and take care of her
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11-10-2006, 03:12 PM
#23
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RE: problems (off topic )
Buddy, the best thing you can do right now is take a breath. There is nothing that can be done right this moment. I would go with her to the store and get one of tests and take it. After that take it again. She might just be late. It happens. My girl was a week late last month and it scared the **** out of me. But about this time each year her thing will shift a week in either direction. You just don't know. Like all have said above, stand by that girl. If she is, this is something that will connect the two of you for the rest of you life. Wish you the best of luck.
11-10-2006, 03:16 PM
#24
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RE: problems (off topic )
ORIGINAL: onetrickpony
Thats kind of a fuked up thing to say.
ORIGINAL: 88blackgt
has it broken? if it hasnt, it might not be urs anyway
has it broken? if it hasnt, it might not be urs anyway
hows that a ****ed up thing to say? i thought it was a new relationship(read other post), and when she is both on the pill and they wrap it up every time, and it never breaks, the chances of her getting pregnant are so incredibly small its basicly impossible.
11-10-2006, 03:32 PM
#25
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RE: problems (off topic )
She should be on the shot anyway.. the pill is OLD SCHOOL!! One shot in the **** and shes good for like 3 months. It just sucks because it costs like 60 bucks each time. But its cheaper than having a kid 
If she is pregnant have you ever considered having her get an abortion? would she be willing to do that? If not, sit down and talk to her... try to convice her to get one and if she doesnt want to than you need to step up... 18 or 28... you have a kid you need to take care of him/her and be a father. Its not all bad though, Im dying to have a kid. I know Im too young and have alot of things to take care of first. Good luck and try not to stress out so much.
If she is pregnant have you ever considered having her get an abortion? would she be willing to do that? If not, sit down and talk to her... try to convice her to get one and if she doesnt want to than you need to step up... 18 or 28... you have a kid you need to take care of him/her and be a father. Its not all bad though, Im dying to have a kid. I know Im too young and have alot of things to take care of first. Good luck and try not to stress out so much.
11-10-2006, 03:38 PM
#27
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RE: problems (off topic )
ORIGINAL: 88BlueGT
She should be on the shot anyway.. the pill is OLD SCHOOL!! One shot in the **** and shes good for like 3 months. It just sucks because it costs like 60 bucks each time. But its cheaper than having a kid If she is pregnant have you ever considered having her get an abortion? would she be willing to do that? If not, sit down and talk to her... try to convice her to get one and if she doesnt want to than you need to step up... 18 or 28... you have a kid you need to take care of him/her and be a father. Its not all bad though, Im dying to have a kid. I know Im too young and have alot of things to take care of first. Good luck and try not to stress out so much.
She should be on the shot anyway.. the pill is OLD SCHOOL!! One shot in the **** and shes good for like 3 months. It just sucks because it costs like 60 bucks each time. But its cheaper than having a kid
If she is pregnant have you ever considered having her get an abortion? would she be willing to do that? If not, sit down and talk to her... try to convice her to get one and if she doesnt want to than you need to step up... 18 or 28... you have a kid you need to take care of him/her and be a father. Its not all bad though, Im dying to have a kid. I know Im too young and have alot of things to take care of first. Good luck and try not to stress out so much.
11-10-2006, 04:04 PM
#28
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RE: problems (off topic )
The Dr. should have been a either YES or NO, find a new doctor. and get an over the counter test kit. Just had our first and believe me it is definately worth it.
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11-10-2006, 04:10 PM
#29
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RE: problems (off topic )
She went to the doctor to get tested, and he said he "didn't know?" What kind of BS is that. Best thing to do is chill out. The human body is a very complex item, many things can cause a woman to be extremly late. (stress, you, and all sorts of BS.) So just let it be, go to another doctor, and if so, man up.
good luck bro...
good luck bro...