Put me in the been there & had to do the same thing. It took me a while but I was able to make a come back. Although I have only been back a couple of weeks, please check in from time to time. That is that I did. Good luck. Maybe the future holds something even better for you. I am back with a "new to me" car and that is good enough. It's still a Mustang. You are still a member of a car cult!