So Sam,
Is there any solution to my dilemma other than getting rid of the 20's and going with either 18's or 19's. Now with the current set up I have which is Eibach Pro Kit spring kit would I need to replace them as well if I want a softer ride? Would you recommend the UHP tires as well? New wheels, tires, springs, dampers??? Is this what I have to do? Now I love the stance of my car now and don't want to change its appearance so please recommend what I need to do?

Thanks