Husband takes stang garbage picking !!!!
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From: The High Country
RE: Husband takes stang garbage picking !!!!
ORIGINAL: theresa
After a 3 week engagement, and 28 years later, I like to think of it as 100% give on both parts. I give 100%and she gives 100%. If you can do that, the rest is gravy.
Moosestang
The chairs looked like old school chairs. Ya know, the ones with the metal legs and the plastic
seat. They stack. Well...They don't stack too good in a Mustang !!!!
Vicking
Why do you let things slide? I get outta line and I can be sure my husband will put me back in.
He wouldn't hit me or anything... (or I would have him assonated) but hewon't put up with crap.
I guess a lot of women can't admit that. I mean if I want to do something that I know I shouldn't,
I can expect to hear some b*tch'n !! So pretty much I won't do it. Like hangin out at the bar (lol)
I know he won't put up with that. I love to go out and party. He doesn't. So.....again ....pretty much I won't do that. (unless he's up north, and you can believe my sister and I get....uhhhh...have fun !)
But getting back to you, maybe put your damn foot down. Tell her to clean her damn rooms,
your tired of living like that ! If you let her get away with it...she will. It's as friggin plain as that.
I'm not doctor Phil or anything but I have been married 25 yrs. In marriage it's a Give and Take.
It can't be all giving....OR taking.
That's exactly why I let that knot head try to put those damn chairs in my stang ! I give a little, and later....I will take.
You seem like a nice guy, don't let her take advantage of you !
Tell that girl to straiten up and fly right ! GAWD !!!!
ORIGINAL: moosestang
Are we talking about cheap plastic chairs you can get at any walmart for $5? I applaud him for trying to recycle them, lord knows we have enough **** filling up our landfills, but I'm not stopping in my $25k car to pick up a $5 chair.
Are we talking about cheap plastic chairs you can get at any walmart for $5? I applaud him for trying to recycle them, lord knows we have enough **** filling up our landfills, but I'm not stopping in my $25k car to pick up a $5 chair.
After a 3 week engagement, and 28 years later, I like to think of it as 100% give on both parts. I give 100%and she gives 100%. If you can do that, the rest is gravy.
Moosestang
The chairs looked like old school chairs. Ya know, the ones with the metal legs and the plastic
seat. They stack. Well...They don't stack too good in a Mustang !!!!
Vicking
Why do you let things slide? I get outta line and I can be sure my husband will put me back in.
He wouldn't hit me or anything... (or I would have him assonated) but hewon't put up with crap.
I guess a lot of women can't admit that. I mean if I want to do something that I know I shouldn't,
I can expect to hear some b*tch'n !! So pretty much I won't do it. Like hangin out at the bar (lol)
I know he won't put up with that. I love to go out and party. He doesn't. So.....again ....pretty much I won't do that. (unless he's up north, and you can believe my sister and I get....uhhhh...have fun !)
But getting back to you, maybe put your damn foot down. Tell her to clean her damn rooms,
your tired of living like that ! If you let her get away with it...she will. It's as friggin plain as that.
I'm not doctor Phil or anything but I have been married 25 yrs. In marriage it's a Give and Take.
It can't be all giving....OR taking.
That's exactly why I let that knot head try to put those damn chairs in my stang ! I give a little, and later....I will take.
You seem like a nice guy, don't let her take advantage of you !Tell that girl to straiten up and fly right ! GAWD !!!!
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Joined: May 2007
Posts: 1,228
From: Brownstown, MI
RE: Husband takes stang garbage picking !!!!
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Viking: It would take far too long to explain, I've tried everything but beating and divorce, I once beat a man into the hospital for hitting his girlfriend in a store so I won't hit her but divorce could be my next move, I've tried everything else.
Hey Viking, don't get me wrong, Idon't believe that hitting your spouse is the way to go.
I grew up in a house where that was going on and it was terrible. I hope you can work it out.
Viking: It would take far too long to explain, I've tried everything but beating and divorce, I once beat a man into the hospital for hitting his girlfriend in a store so I won't hit her but divorce could be my next move, I've tried everything else.
Hey Viking, don't get me wrong, Idon't believe that hitting your spouse is the way to go.
I grew up in a house where that was going on and it was terrible. I hope you can work it out.
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Joined: Aug 2007
Posts: 5,104
From: Houston, TX
RE: Husband takes stang garbage picking !!!!
Yea sometimes just sitting down and explaining things really does work. If you just let it keep happening it will be harder and harder to fix it later down the road. Good Luck though!
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